A couple of books for you from some probably recognizable spanko names--
Jillian Keenan is one of us, which is to she's a spanking enthusiast. Go to YouTube, do a search on her name, and video after video pops up about her talking about different aspects os the spanking scene. My favorite, I think, is the multi-part series of her and some of other spanking people watching and talking about spanking scenes in the movies. The book tells how the Bard helped her on her journey to figuring out her sexual identity and the big part that spanking plays in it. You can find it on Amazon.
Another memoir of a spanko woman's journey. If you don't know the name of Ariel Anderssen, you might know her better as Amelia Jean Rutherford. This is her story. According to Amazon:
"In this bold and intimate memoir Ariel Anderssen charts her journey from a strict religious upbringing as a Jehovah’s Witness to her current position as one of the most widely recognized BDSM performers in the world. Her route between the two includes a period as a wretchedly miserable, teenage political activist, a phase touring with a Christian theatre group, and accidentally discovering a talent for posing for art nude photography. This surprising and unconventional career path led her to a life-altering introduction to BDSM-themed erotic artwork and a whole world she never imagined existing.