Rather, it's the message on the chalkboard that resonates with me. That sort of attitude is exactly what a lot of spankers are looking for!
Let's face it--some people are perfectly happy with just asking for a spanking. That works for many spankers and spankees. But there are spankees who don't like going that route. If they're going to be spanked, by golly, they're going to do something to earn it! So they act up, or act out, or play the "brat", just waiting for that moment when they get caught and are taken in hand. It adds a certain something extra to the whole "crime and punishment" scenario. There's whatever deed they commit, then being found out, followed by the scolding and lecturing, possibly some corner time, and all of it building up to that stomach-churning moment when they're placed over a knee and the spanks start to fall.
There's always been one small problem with that scenario--namely, if the spanking is effective and they really do learn their "lesson"--pretty soon there will be no reason to spank them anymore! And that would be rather boring in the long run.
And that's why I applaud the attitude this young lady's message displays. Yes, she's been a bad girl. Yes, she'll accept what she has coming to her. But once that's over--that naughty streak still lingers on and may come out at any moment! And then the whole process begins again.
I think spankers and spankees alike would agree--we wouldn't want it any other way!
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That's the problem all right. If spanking as punishment worked, there'd soon be no need to spank.
Hugs,
Hermione
The funny thing is when you're past a certain age, it's hard to be bad in a way where spanking would be the resolution. I think it'd be funny to try and ask "will you spank me now?" after doing something respectively naughty. lol The last time I forgot to leave the windows a crack open and the car smelled like tacos, I sure didn't get a spanking. haha
Hermione--And that would be horrible! :-) Of course, they could just say, "Spank me"--but as I mentioned, some people don't like doing it that way.
I'm fine with either method--a lady can just ask me to spank her, or do something to "earn" it. I'm happy to oblige whichever way they want to go!
Unauthorized--actually, judging from what I see from a number of ladies--it's really not that hard at all. You just have to get in touch with your "inner brat".
And you might be surprised how effective asking in a challenging way can be. "Will you spank me now?" or "What are you going to do? Spank me?" has gotten many a person turned bottoms up. Try it and see!
Fine, I'll give it a try. It IS the weekend isn't it? lol But, if I fail miserably, I'm coming straight back to you Doc. lol
Excellent post, Doc, as well as thoughtful comments. Poppy had an unfortunate experience with the word 'naughty' this week so I did a post about 'naughty' as well, and her self-rebuttal post is scheduled to go on later tonight, so it seems a lot of us are on exactly the same page. Nothing wrong with that, but just wanted you to know who was on the bandwagon with you. ;-)
-Dev
Unauthorized--Geez, if you'd come straight to me in the first place, you'd be "bottoms up" by now....
I hope it works for you. Sadly, there's no guarantee. A lto of it, obviously, depends on the person you want to do the spanking. Is he open to the idea, or will he just give you that "vanilla" look and say, "What are you talking about?"
I still think your best bet is to come over here....LOL
Devlin O'Neill--I saw Poppy's post on what "naughty" isn't and--naturally--enjoyed it thoroughly. I even left her a comment--something to the effect of, "If anyone knows what naughty is--it's you!"
I'm not sure how well that will go over....
but thanks for the heads-up. Great minds think alike, and there's plenty of room on the bandwagon....
I think sometimes the lesson is learned only until the pain subsides. Then we are ready to be naughty again. :)
Katia
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