Sunday, November 30, 2008

The Ol' Switcheroo

I recently had one of those "D'oh!" moments--the type of moment when you suddenly realize something that should have occurred to you days, weeks or months ago. It involved the Japanese site Hand-Spanking.com which features F/f spankings by hand only-- a site I've been a member of and consider to be a site definitely worth paying for.

In the past, I talked about the things I liked about it, most noticeably the models. The women, with few exceptions, all have that Oriental beauty--timeless and ageless faces, cute little spankable bottoms, and (occasionally) a voice that could cut glass when they're reacting to a spanking. But sitting at work about a week ago, another reason why I liked the site suddenly dawned on me--and why it took so long for me to recognize it is a mystery.

To explain, I first have to go back many years to a time when I was at a spanking party. Several of us were just sitting around talking--spankers, spankees, a few switches--when one woman asked, "What is it you guys like so much about women spanking other women? What's the big deal to you? Why do you like it so much? Would you be that interested if it were a man spanking another man?"

It should come as no surprise that all the males there showed no interest in the M/m scenario.

As for the rest of the question, for me the answer was pretty simple--as long as the spankee was female, it really didn't matter to me who the spanker was. I'm probably not even looking at the spanker. My first response on seeing a F/f photo, for instance, is always, "I wish I was doing the spanking". Since I can't, I'm just happy to see the lady being spanked--the spanker makes no difference, male or female.

I later came to realize that my second response to a F/f photo was, "I'd like to spank the lady who's doing the spanking, too." Apparently, when it comes to F/f pictures, my mind always assumes the spanker is a switch and therefore, subject to being spanked. Don't ask me why--it's not an assumption I ever make in real life. I guess, in fantasy, anything is possible.

I was thinking about that very subject when I had my "moment of clarity"--that's one reason why I liked Hand-Spanking.com. They feature that sort of role-reversal in quite a few of their scenarios.

Take, for example, a series of updates they ran back in September. The first one (video clips and photos) involved a patient in a hospital using a cell phone in an area where cell phones were prohibited. The nurse who caught her decided to deal with her in a very stern manner.....





Later on, the patient came across the nurse breaking the very same rule, and took it upon herself to see the rule enforced....

See? Role-reversal.
The next scenario was a standard one, a mother spanking her daughter over some offense--a very normal and standard set piece of many spanking sites. But the next update went back to the role-reversal theme. A big sister takes her younger sister to task over her homework....

Later, the younger sister catches big sis doing some self-spanking. (Big sister is apparently a big spanko!) The younger girl decides it's the perfect opportunity to take her revenge.....

Once again, spanker becomes spankee--a sight I definitely like to see when it comes to F/f scenes.

I'm glad I figured that out. It just might mean it's time for me to sign up for another membership run!

8 comments:

spankingbarbie said...

that is too funny! Good to realize though...and probably true of most guys. Just like many women (myself included) like to look at lesbian porn...but two guys getting it on doesn't do it for me. As a bottom though...I hate getting spanked by women. I love my men...lol

Spankingbarbie

Thoughtful Spanker said...

Well Dr. Ken, I've never really thought about it, but I have to agree with everything you've written, it just makes sense.
I always find myself thinking, "...and when you to ladies are through with one another..."

LOL, that very same thought pop into my head regarding lesbian porn also Barbie.

Radha said...

Spanking for using a cell phone in a restricted area - it seems we need this to happen all the time in real life! Wouldn't that be fun if there was some sort of "citizen's arrest spanking"?

you naughty, naughty, doctor, you! I never knew about some of these sites you feature on your blog. I get schooled everytime I come by!

LOL! Dr. Ken! I'm glad that spanking can be so full of revelations!

Radha

Dr. Ken said...

Barbie--it's funny that way. When I see a F/f scene at a party, for instance, the role-reversal idea never pops into my head. I'm not about to engage in the futility of trying to top a Top. (Now, if I happen to KNOW that the Spanker is a Switch--then I may entertain thoughts in that direction.) But when it comes to the fantasy area of videos and photographs...that's always where my mind goes.
There are many women who don't mind the experience of being spanked by another woman. Still, glad to hear you prefer a male taking a hand....and I'm sure your men love you just as much! :-)

Thoughtful Spanker--very nice of you to comment! And yep, that's the same thought I get--"Are you done? Ok, you with the red bottom, go stand in the corner. I'll deal with you in a little while. As for YOU, 'Ms. Spanker'--come here, young lady!"

Radha--I'm 100% behind the idea of "citizen's arrest spanking!" LOL
Except I'd probably never get anything else done....
I'm one of the hold-outs who still doesn't have a cell phone. I can see where it would be handy for emergency situations--being able to call AAA in case of car trouble, etc. But outside of that, my phone conversations are private, and I prefer to keep them that way. And I REALLY don't want to listen to half of anyone else's phone call!
So, naturally, I have to ask--if you have one, how is your own cell phone usage, young lady? Hmmmmmm?
:-)
As for your "schooling"--I aim to inform as well as entertain. I'm so glad you enjoy these pages! I get the same rush from reading your blog--informative, entertaining, insightful and always a pleasure!
I hope that the wonderful world of spanking still has many revelations left to enjoy for both of us!

Radha said...

Nope. I don't have a cell phone, either! So, no naughty phone behavior to report...and I've never spanked anyone, so it does seem an interesting way to address the trangression, but then, I think, wouldn't it be like a reward to get the spanking? Sort of defeats the purpose, doesn't it? Oh, the enigmas of the spanking world!

Much love, always,
Radha

Dr. Ken said...

Radha--the next time I visited your blog to leave a comment, I was going to start it off with, "Citizen's Arrest!! Citizen's Arrest!!"
Sure, only you and I and Lord Krishna would get the joke, but still....
Ah, another cell-phoneless voice of reason! Bless you. And while I think your bottom was pretty safe regardless of your answer, it was still fun to throw a minor threat your way. :-)
And you're right, of course...if the cell phone user is a dedicated spanko, then they're going to be looking for that citizen's arrest every chance they get. You can ramp up the spanking to where it would be more punitive, I suppose--it might work, or it just might be exactly what they were hoping for!
Just one of those wonderful riddles to gnaw on.....

Dr. Ken

Mina said...

I never thought about the f/f scenarios before but they are kind of sweet to look at. As a switch I only want to be spanked by a man but I am sure I could spank both men and women.

Damn, now I want to spank someone or be spanked or just well...damn!

Hugs
Mina

Dr. Ken said...

Mina--I know that "want to spank someone" feeling only too well!